For every big moment of joy and celebration, there is a big, huge moment of self-doubt that can bring you to the brink of tears. It’s easy to get so wrapped up in the moment that you forget the person you are becoming, only to realize that you’ve just been staring at yourself as you walk down the aisle.
It sounds ridiculous, but the act of getting married and having a wedding is a huge change in the way people view themselves. You’re walking down the aisle, looking in the mirror, and your wedding dress is just a blur, like something out of a dream. You are truly becoming a person with a purpose, a life, and a future. Yet at the same time, you’re just as much a walking, talking, talking, talking mess as everyone else.
Its not hard. It’s just a lot of hard work. The hardest part is learning how to walk down the aisle as a person who has nothing to do with the wedding, who is not participating in the planning, and who is not even present for the actual ceremony. This is where the whole “going to a wedding” thing, which is really about being in the wedding party, comes in.
You know, I don’t think anyone needs to go to their own wedding. It’s really just a way to get to know people. And you can’t really be anything other than the person who is getting married. But you can learn so much more about people by getting to know them in other ways.
So, for the past few weeks or so, we’ve been asking the question, “do people get married because they have to?” And the answer is yes, in some cases, but even more so for those who are married for the sole purpose of having sex with their spouse. I mean, just look at the wedding photos of the married couples in those articles. You’ll notice that they aren’t married to the person they’re marrying. They’ve married a different person.
In the video above, I say that people get married because they have to. That is true in some instances, but not all. But the more you look, the more you will realize that this is, in fact, not true. I myself am married to a woman who is in a relationship with me, but I have very little contact with her (the woman) other than to make sure that she doesnt do something weird to me or her child.
But in the video clip above, we see a more common situation. In fact, most people say that they get married just because they have to. The reason why is that they have to. It has nothing to do with their relationship. The only reason is because they have to.
The reason is because they are human. I suppose that is also why people marry people from different countries (or at least country lines). It is because in the world we live in, people are getting married for exactly the same reasons that people get married in the Bible. It is because people (like the Bible) have no idea where you came from or where you are going.
Ok, we get it, you don’t know my real name. But I have a question. Do you know what your real name is? Maybe you just want to pretend that you do. If you don’t mind, I’d like to know.
The best way to get to know someone is to start by getting to know them through the things they do. This is why a wedding is where you get to know someone’s story, what they are like on the inside, and when it comes to the end, how they are going to be remembered. There is no other way.